Usually, it’s an older, often chubbier white guy who, for all his shortcomings, is, well, white.
When a rice queen sees you, he notices only those features he’s attracted to, not necessarily your other qualities.
At some point down the road, your rice queen will find an even better Asian who embodies even more of the qualities he likes, and you might end up sitting on the curb on garbage day. Potatoes age faster White guys age faster than us Asians, at least on the surface.
QUEERTY: How often do people ask you where your from and how do you respond?
KIM: I was born in Flushing, Queens and have never been to Korea, but because of the way my face looks, I am charged with answering for my Korean-ness, instead of being an American human that just happens to not be white.
We must wake up and stand up for oppressed groups, intersectionally, starting with women.