When Abercrombie tried to advertise muscular, physically imposing male models in Japan, their ads failed.The same advertisements did well in the United States where men are raised to be more muscular and masculine.
If you are more assertive and like to take a leadership role, then you may want to meet a woman who will follow your lead.
In the West, gender equality and a stronger role for women in the workforce mean that you are less likely to find submissive women.
Otherwise, you would have body builders as presidents and CEOs instead of people who have the intellectual capacity to run a country or a business.
Submissiveness is something that is taught within a culture.
I'm calm and quiet a lot of the time, but perfectly happy being stern and commanding in 'certain' situations.