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And the interesting part is that the more we put effort into a relationship with someone, the more invested WE become.
I would encourage you to look for opportunities for the guy to make an effort toward you.
Bottom line: Don’t accept or ignore behavior that you don’t want…
but realize that “not accepting” behavior doesn’t mean fighting the other person. Showing the guy that you’re not going to wait around for him if he disappears demonstrates a lot of good things about you: you have your own life, you have options and your world doesn’t revolve around him.
The more of an effort he puts into seeing you or doing things for you, the more invested in you he’ll become.
This is why being accommodating to bad behavior is actually harmful to creating a bond with the guy in the beginning.
Any woman I’ve ever really cared for (and showed priority towards) didn’t settle for behavior that wasn’t what she wanted.